Sorry to 2 of my Buddies out there. I din mean it..
First of all, i would like to say sorry to 2 of my buddies, jieting and bruce. Two straight days in a row, I've offended 2 of my brothers in our gang, which i felt really bad. Twisting and turning, i just couldnt get into sleep. mainly becoz i've been thinking wat went wrong wif my life. Was i being too cocky? Indeed. Words have been comin out frm my mouth wifout any processing from the brains. Words have been typed wifout any considerations for the other parties. For the actions i've done, I sincerely offer my apologies and hope my buddies would forgive me. But wat I would like to point out is tat I really do not have any intention to ‘criticize’ u guys. In wat position am I fit to criticize u guys? None. Wat I have done is simply unacceptable and I regret to having done tat. Sorry
First of all to jieting, I am sorry for making all those sweeping statements. When I first read ur blog, I was really stunned to know tat u are so pissed off wif me. How I wish tat ‘U’ in ur blog wasn’t referring to me. In fact, I even asked kapo who was the guy tat u mentioned in ur blog. I knew tat the first one was referring to me. I admit. But for the 2nd statement, truefully I totally forgot about it. I know its not an excuse to say this, but I really do not have the intention to comment about ur personal opinions on marriage or relationships. I did not read ur previous blog abt ur views on relationships. They are insightful and I respect them. But most importantly, its your opinions. Regarding tat incidence, I made tat statement wifout thinking thru but I din meant to insult ur position on tat issue. Just take tat mot is raving nonsense. But even such a good-tempered man like u would be so agitated simply means that I have gone too far this time. Felt remorseful after reading ur blog. Yeah u are rite. Everybody has his sensitive spots and treading onto it is something unforgivable. I made this mistake this time and I will learn from it. “Even wif buddies, certain things tat are sensitive shldnt be criticized wifout thinking thru”. Now tat I am 21, I will definitely grow up and learn. Hope u can forgive my foolishness and naiveness.
And to bruce, I am sorry for insulting you online. I agreed that wat I typed was unreasonable and in fact atrocious. Besides insulting u, most importantly I insulted Px which I sincerely apologized. Before the chat, I went to watch 我猜 and the 单元 was on 野蛮女友. In the show, the gf mentioned she actually forced her bf to eat ps. K. I laughed at it. I know its wrong to link this eg to you. But seriously, its time u change tat habit of yours. I know everyone has his own bad habits and tat getting rid of it is not a overnight process. Being friends, wat we shld do is to constantly remind u not to do it, and not to make jokes out of it. What I did was wrong and insulting, I apologized. Different people has different capacity for accepting ‘ jokes’ and I am sorry tat I went too far this time. I really do not have the intention to insult u and ur gf k. I wanted to make it as a ‘joke’ but seems that its too personal to be one and I have portrayed it in a very negative way. At least in your perception tat is. Failure to look things in ur perspective is my mistake and I will take note of it.
Words typed in caps will not be used unless required as they often invite unnecessary misunderstandings which we all want to avoid. Next time before speaking, its important for me to think thru first. Especially on sensitive issues and things that are very personal. I will try to draw a clear line between things tat can be joked on, and matters that require the respect of others. Lastly, I would like to apologize once again for any damages that I have inflicted on two of my buddies due to my foolishness and recklessness. There wasn’t really any real intention to ‘criticize’ u guys and I apologize for making u guys perceive it in such a insulting manner.
Hopefully, this will be the last time I would need to post such a serious apology letter online. But when things go wrong, something must be done to amend for it. Hereby I ain’t ashamed to admit my mistakes and hope u guys can forgive and forget. Let’s enjoy our chalet this fri, sat and Sunday k?
Yours sincerely,
Wenguang
First of all to jieting, I am sorry for making all those sweeping statements. When I first read ur blog, I was really stunned to know tat u are so pissed off wif me. How I wish tat ‘U’ in ur blog wasn’t referring to me. In fact, I even asked kapo who was the guy tat u mentioned in ur blog. I knew tat the first one was referring to me. I admit. But for the 2nd statement, truefully I totally forgot about it. I know its not an excuse to say this, but I really do not have the intention to comment about ur personal opinions on marriage or relationships. I did not read ur previous blog abt ur views on relationships. They are insightful and I respect them. But most importantly, its your opinions. Regarding tat incidence, I made tat statement wifout thinking thru but I din meant to insult ur position on tat issue. Just take tat mot is raving nonsense. But even such a good-tempered man like u would be so agitated simply means that I have gone too far this time. Felt remorseful after reading ur blog. Yeah u are rite. Everybody has his sensitive spots and treading onto it is something unforgivable. I made this mistake this time and I will learn from it. “Even wif buddies, certain things tat are sensitive shldnt be criticized wifout thinking thru”. Now tat I am 21, I will definitely grow up and learn. Hope u can forgive my foolishness and naiveness.
And to bruce, I am sorry for insulting you online. I agreed that wat I typed was unreasonable and in fact atrocious. Besides insulting u, most importantly I insulted Px which I sincerely apologized. Before the chat, I went to watch 我猜 and the 单元 was on 野蛮女友. In the show, the gf mentioned she actually forced her bf to eat ps. K. I laughed at it. I know its wrong to link this eg to you. But seriously, its time u change tat habit of yours. I know everyone has his own bad habits and tat getting rid of it is not a overnight process. Being friends, wat we shld do is to constantly remind u not to do it, and not to make jokes out of it. What I did was wrong and insulting, I apologized. Different people has different capacity for accepting ‘ jokes’ and I am sorry tat I went too far this time. I really do not have the intention to insult u and ur gf k. I wanted to make it as a ‘joke’ but seems that its too personal to be one and I have portrayed it in a very negative way. At least in your perception tat is. Failure to look things in ur perspective is my mistake and I will take note of it.
Words typed in caps will not be used unless required as they often invite unnecessary misunderstandings which we all want to avoid. Next time before speaking, its important for me to think thru first. Especially on sensitive issues and things that are very personal. I will try to draw a clear line between things tat can be joked on, and matters that require the respect of others. Lastly, I would like to apologize once again for any damages that I have inflicted on two of my buddies due to my foolishness and recklessness. There wasn’t really any real intention to ‘criticize’ u guys and I apologize for making u guys perceive it in such a insulting manner.
Hopefully, this will be the last time I would need to post such a serious apology letter online. But when things go wrong, something must be done to amend for it. Hereby I ain’t ashamed to admit my mistakes and hope u guys can forgive and forget. Let’s enjoy our chalet this fri, sat and Sunday k?
Yours sincerely,
Wenguang
